This post is for a friend of mine who never had a girlfriend. Marami akong friends na never pang nagka-girlfriend but he has the worst case.. or so I think. But then again, this is also for most of you guys who are still wondering how to get a girl for keeps.
Hindi ko na babanggitin kung sino ha. Nakakabwisit din kasi yung magpopost ka kung gaano mo siya kagusto tapos bigla mong sasabihing "Single is sexy."
Putanginang single is sexy, hindi nakakain yon.
Single is sexy... Believed no one ever!
Before pa kung anu anong masabi ko at baka maka-offend pa'ko lalo here are a few things that you should be.
Be Genuinely Nice
Yep. A guy should always be nice to a girl. But, I posted a three letter heading sa paragraph na'to. What most NGSB forget is that you have to be "genuine."
Kung pakitang tao lang ang ipapakita mo, huwag mo ng ituloy. Hindi naman tanga ang kababaihan. Si Kris lang at Ai Ai ang mga tanga. Kung gusto mo lang magka-gf, manligaw ka ng tanga. Huwag kang manligaw ng matino. Ang genuinely nice na lalake, hindi lang dapat mabait sa nililigawan, dapat mabait din siya sa lahat. Dahil sooner or later, baka hindi lang ikaw ang manliligaw sa kanya, liligawan din siya ng mga nakapalibot sa kanya for you. Ang babae ginagalang, tinatrato ng tama kasama ang mga friends nya. At wala ng mas sexy sa genuine na lalake. Kahit pangit ka, magiging pogi ka na rin. Hindi yung single is sexy. Putanginang single is sexy yan.
Be Interesting
Don't try to be a perfect guy. There is no such thing as a perfect guy. Pantasya lang ng mga babae yun. Parang si Maria Ozawa (for men) lang nung kapanahunan niya pa.
Ang mga babae may kanya kanyang topak yan. Hindi na bago yung trip nila ang maginoo pero medyo bastos. Wag ka na ring magtaka kung sasabihin nilang gusto nila mestizo pero kinabukasan, sing-itim ng uling ang boyfriend nila. Ang mga babae fickle minded. Huwag mo ng i-figure out kung ano ang gusto nila. Nagsasayang ka lang ng oras.
Ang secret but not so secret formula anymore is being unique. Try something new naman. Hwag mo ng i-try mag-basketball kung ayaw mo talagang mag-dribble ng bola. For a change mamundok ka paminsan minsan, mag-alaga ka ng ahas, kumain ka ng scorpion, magtinda ka ng pisbol. Women get amazed pretty easily by men who change the rules of the ballgame. Kung susubukan mong maging basketball player at yayayain mo siyang manood ng isang ball game, baka she'll end up liking the star player instead of you. Malay mo, trip din niya ang mga trip mong kakaiba. Women are willing to learn din naman. You just have to be different at first. Spark interest in her. Sometimes, uniqueness is sexy. Hindi single is sexy. Puta.
Be Someone
Stop talking about other people. Girls will get bored kung gaano mo ka-idol ang ibang tao. Sometimes, try showing a different side of you. It doesn't have to be the good side, it can also be the bad side. Sabi ko nga, there is no perfect guy. Showing your bad side will be like telling the girl na you are not perfect and that you are the most honest person in the world.
Try Hard But Not Too Much
There is no harm in trying to court a girl na sobrang ganda, cute, sexy, etc. But let's face it, generally, girls would like to have a boyfriend na either ka-level nila or higher. Do your best to get here attention, if it doesn't work, try again.
Pag wala pa rin, call it quits.
Don't expect too much. If you expect much, you might get hurt much. Ganun lang yun. Kaya kung alam mo ng tagilid ka in the first place, bakit pa sasakit ang loob mo kapag nabasted ka? Kabobohan un. Bibigyan mo ng kung anu ano tapos bitter ka pag nabasted. Women aren't businesses in the first place. Don't treat them like investments. If you give a girl something, be ready to accept the fact na pwede niya itong balewalain.
Be a man.
Actually, yun na yung last advice ko. Just be a man. Don't be a pussy. Hindi ko na kailangang sabihin na ang confidence ay mabuti. Confidence can't be earned merely by reading it. You earn it by believing and doing it, that is sexy.
And that's how you get a girlfriend.
